Looking from the other side:What it might feel like for a guy

I'm listening to some old R&B songs from a male point of view such as Dru Hill,Profyle,and a few others.We as women often are unfair to men,I think we exaggerate us being cheated on,women often have the same form as far as our vaginal areas,a man cheats because he finds the other woman attractive and wants something different most of the time.Women may start off pursuing another man out of curiosity but if it continues it means she is displeased.I feel this makes a man feel weak and incapable of pleasing his woman. This can do a lot of damage to his self-esteem,pride,and dignity.NOT SAYING THAT THE SAME COULD NOT BE DONE TO A WOMAN!!!!! but it's different for a man...maybe I'm the only one who thinks so but it just seems worse from a male perspective,I guess it's because they are the ones who create life.A woman can HAVE a child but it is the male sperm MIXED with her egg that creates another life form.Without the sperm of the male it makes no difference if she has a thousand eggs,they'll never fertilize.So when a man is cheated on it's like telling him he's not man enough,it's like telling him he can't get it up,his soldiers don't march,You might as well call him sterile.......YALL GET THE PICTURE!!!!!! Women feel betrayed it's not about sex for us,it's like your saying you don't love us and please don't ask for a divorce......LORD HAVE MERCY!!!!!! Women love sooooo HARD when you ask for a divorce it's like your slapping us in the face and ignoring all the time we've put in but when/if a man loses a good woman he WILL regret it til it kills him!!!! (Ex:John Legend--This Time,Trey Songz-Love Lost,Sisqo--Incomplete,Tyrese--I do love you) It just goes to show you it's not always about testosterone,sometimes a man NEEDS to show his vulnerabilities in order for a woman to understand him.Instead they bottle so much inside and in the end it does sooooo much more harm than good.So I encourage all men please share your feelings,don't try and hold everything in let it out,you'll probably be glad you did.